Are we being heard? Presenting. Returning. Explaining. Repeating.

Continuing to show up with symptoms — to doctors, to medical staff — only to be told again and again:
“It’s nothing to worry about.”
"It’s how it is"
“There’s nothing we can do for you.”

Even after tests. Even after biopsies.
Even when you know — deep in your bones — that something is wrong.

To place your trust in a medical system designed to help you…
To believe that someone will listen, investigate, care…
And to find silence, dismissal, or polite indifference instead…
Leaves behind a wound far deeper than illness.
You feel unheard, unimportant and disregarded

Because when the best advice is not given, when no one is looking —
and no one is listening —
the consequences can be life-altering.

Not just for you…
But for those around you.
For the gaping holes where loved ones used to be.
For the life once lived that no longer exists.

Medical failings — or perhaps just ignorance — leaves casualties in its wake.
Lives are changed forever.
And no amount of untaken responsibility can undo that.

But sharing?
Sharing helps us belong.
And when we belong, we find our voice.
A voice that doesn’t seek revenge — but recognition.
A voice that says: This mattered. I mattered.
And that the unjust can never be justified—but we are not to be ignored. 
Together our voices speak volumes.


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